Do I need a Reason to be Happy

A 99 year old lady got herself admitted in her old age home since her husband was no more. While she was waiting to get her admission the receptionist informed, "Mam your room is in the 1st floor". Lady responded "Marvelous......"

When the domestic attendant took her to her room in 1st floor through the lift, attendant said stating "Mam, your room is on the North East corner of the building". Lady responded with enthusiasm, "That is Fabulous". Attendant said, "The size of the Room is 8 by 8". Lady again responded, "That is Wonderful"

Puzzled by the responses the lady gave attender asked the lady, "Mam what is so fabulous about North east corner room and wonderful about 8 by 8 room"???

Lady responded, "I have decided myself to be Happy irrespective of the situation I have in my life. 
I will do everything out of HAPPINESS and not for HAPPINESS. Remember each day we are progressing one day close to our grave."

The seekers, guru, God, messengers who have walked this planet had faced life with miseries. Life was tough even for immortal souls like Krishna and Christ. You and Me being a mortal soul how could the life promise to be happy all through the days and years to come. But lets be happy and face life with happiness irrespective of the situation we encounter in our life.


"Do I need a Reason to be Happy?"

Each Day Is A Gift

The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud lady, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o’clock, with her hair fashionably coifed and makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. Her husband of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.

After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready.  As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on her window. “I love it,” she stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.

“Mrs. Jones, you haven’t seen the room …. just wait.”

“That doesn’t have anything to do with it,” she replied. “Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn’t depend on how the furniture is arranged, it’s how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it. It’s a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I’ll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I’ve stored away, just for this time in my life.”

She went on to explain, “Old age is like a bank account, you withdraw from what you’ve put in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still depositing.”

And with a smile, she said:  “Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.”

How To Approach Us Girls- A Woman's Point Of View

How To Approach Us Girls- A Woman's Point Of  View

It seems so easy when you see other guys  doing it! However, you may find that approaching a girl , telling her that you like her or asking her out, is Mission Impossible for you!


Don’t worry, us girls won’t easily admit it, but the fact is that we feel flattered most of the times we are approached... at least, if you do it right!


However, approaching a girl  means you have to face the possibility of being rejected, and no one likes that!


In order to minimize this awful turn of events coming true, next time you go for it, pay attention to certain signals us girls send. You may have probably noticed by now that women who like a guy  won’t approach him, but wait for the man to do the first move.


Certainly, you can’t expect a girl to do a direct approach: it’s you who have to take the chance, because we also fear rejection! On the other hand, it’s not that us girls don’t communicate: we may not be using words, but we are constantly sending signals through body language.


For Example:


* Eye  contact: Girls may flirt through a short period of eye contact, then glancing away, and then looking back at you to see if you maintained the contact.

* Tossing the hair: A girl who plays with her hair is definitely trying to catch a guy’s attention.

* Touching the edge of our glass: Very common signal in bars and discos!

Helpful Tips

Next time you go to a disco, a bar or a club, a good exercise you can do is just sitting there and watching.

Observe the way girls act around boys they like, as well as how they respond with their body language when a guy they’re not interested comes near.

Look at men too, you may recognize in them certain signals you are sending as well (whether intentionally, or not!). If you have a girl who is a close friend, you may even ask her for help: tell her to point at those girls who are flirting, since us women recognize in others the same body language that we use.

When you finally approach a girl, don’t look desperate: asking for her number immediately is a bad idea.

She may think you do that to every girl around!

First, talk to her, get to know her, take the time to know who she is and what you could have in common. Only then you may ask for her number or ask her on a date.

Us girls like guys who make us laugh, who we can trust, who shows that he cares and who listen to us. Demonstrate you could be one of those guys, and you'll get the girl for sure!

Eye Contact

One of the leading causes of guys getting rejected when they approach the girl is that they don't make eye contact.

    * Don't look at the floor!
    * Don't mumble!
    * Don't stare at her upper body area!

Girls want confident men to approach them. They want someone who doesn't make them nervous and eye contact helps with that.

Girls are very quick to pick up  on a man's confidence and would reject him quickly just on this basis alone.

Smiling

Smiling is the simplest way to recognize whether or not the girl has an interest in you! When you smile at her, she would most probably smile back at you if she was ready to be approached.

    * Smile but DO NOT STARE!

BUT, if she has a blank expression on her face or maybe just looks away as if trying to ignore you then she is not willing to be approached and you should avoid a possible rejection and move on to someone else.
Positive Body Language

Positive nonverbal communication is very important to be able to approach a girl effectively and receive the appropriateresponse.

When a girl senses that you're nervous with your approach she is more likely to reject you especially if she fidgets and feels tense. She may be uncomfortable and she'll show it.

    * Is her body facing you or away from you?
    * Is she smiling?


"If you want to make her feel comfortable about YOU approaching HER, then you have to feel comfortable YOURSELF."

A woman will feed off whatever energy you are sending out. When you send out a message that you are nervous and apprehensive about approaching her, then what do you think she is going to end up feeling ?

That same nervous and apprehensive energy that you're feeling, she'll feel!!

You can eliminate this by instead being relaxed and not feeling nervous at all. Just say to yourself, "There's nothing really bad that can happen from approaching this woman".
"Women like to be approached by guys, just as long as you're not doing so with the hopes of dating her."

Does that make any sense?

Even though a part of her will probably guess that this may be the reason why you are approaching her, it shouldn't be so apparent.

She can't think that this is all you want to do.

It has to be a lot more natural to approach a woman and get a conversation started. After some chemistry has been built up, then work your way into getting a date with her. If she is out at a bar or a club, chances are, she is open to being approached by a guy, as long as he doesn't seem like just another guy that wants to hook up.

LOVE IS SO INCREDIBLY POWERFUL.

Like any good mother, when Karen found out that another baby was on the  way, she did what she could to help her  3-year-old son, Michael, prepare for a new sibling. They found out that the new baby was going be a girl, and day after day, night after night, Michael sang to his sister in Mommy’s tummy. He was building a bond of love with his little sister before he even met her. The pregnancy progressed normally for Karen,
an active member of the Panther Creek United Methodist Church in Morristown , Tennessee In time, the labor pains came. Soon it was every five minutes, every three, every minute. But serious complications arose during delivery and Karen found herself in hours of labor. Would a C-section be required? Finally, after a long struggle, Michael’s little sister was born. But she was in very serious condition. With a siren howling in the night, the ambulance rushed the infant to the neonatal intensive care unit at St. Mary’s Hospital, Knoxville , Tennessee The days inched by. The little girl got worse. The pediatrician had to tell the parents there is very little hope. Be prepared for the worst.

Karen and her husband contacted a local cemetery about a burial plot. They had fixed up a special room in their house for their new baby but now they found themselves having to plan for a funeral. Michael however, kept begging his parents to let him see his sister. I want to sing to her, he kept saying. Week two in intensive care looked as if a funeral would come before the week was over. Michael kept nagging about singing to his sister, but kids are never allowed in Intensive Care. Karen decided to take Michael whether they liked it or not. If he didn’t see his sister right then, he may never see her alive.  She dressed him in an oversized scrub suit and marched him into ICU.  He looked like a walking laundry basket. The head nurse recognized him as a child and bellowed, Get that kid out of here now. No children are allowed!’  The mother rose up strong in Karen, and the usually mild-mannered lady glared steel-eyed right into the head nurse’s face, her lips a firm line. ‘He is not leaving until he sings to his sister’ she stated.  Then Karen towed Michael to his sister’s bedside. He gazed at the tiny infant losing the battle to live.  After a moment, he began to sing. In the pure-hearted voice of a 3-year-old, Michael sang:

‘You are my sunshine, my only sunshine,
you make me happy when skies are gray.’
Instantly the baby girl seemed to respond.
The pulse rate began to calm down and become steady.

‘Keep on singing, Michael,’ encouraged Karen with tears in her eyes.

‘You never know, dear, how much I love you,
please don’t take my sunshine away.’ 

As Michael sang to his sister, the baby’s ragged, strained breathing became as smooth as a kitten’s purr
‘Keep on singing, sweetheart.’

‘The other night, dear, as I lay sleeping,
I dreamed I held you in my arms’
Michael’s little sister began to relax as rest,
healing rest, seemed to sweep over her.

‘Keep on singing, Michael.’  Tears had now conquered the face of the bossy head nurse.  Karen glowed.

‘You are my sunshine, my only sunshine.
Please don’t take my sunshine away.’

The next day…the very next day.  the little girl was well enough to go home Woman’s Day Magazine called it
The Miracle of a Brother’s Song. The medical staff just called it a miracle. Karen called it a miracle of God’s love. NEVER GIVE UP ON THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. LOVE IS SO INCREDIBLY POWERFUL. In God We Trust! ‘The evidence of God’s presence far outweighs the proof of His absence.’

Life is Good.

Some Good Jokes

(1) एक दिन एक मुर्गी मार्केट गयी और एक दुकान पर जाकर बोली 1 अंडा देना।

दुकानदार- अंडे का क्या करोगी?

मुर्गी- मेरे पति ने कहा है कि 2 रुपये के लिए तुम अपना फीगर खराब मत करो।

(2) गब्बर (कड़कदार आवाज में) - ऐ मुर्गी तूने एक अंडा क्यूं दिया, तुझे डर नही लगता क्या? मुर्गी- सरदार डर लगता है तभी तो अंडा दिया है वर्ना मैं तो मुर्गा हूं।

(3) एक ऑफिस में दस बहुत ही आलसी कर्मचारी थे। एक दिन बॉस ने उन लोगों को सुधारने की गरज से एक प्लान सोचा। मेरे पास एक बहुत ही आसान काम है जिसके दोगुने पैसे मिलेंगे। तुम लोगों में जो सबसे ज्यादा आलसी होगा उसे ही यह काम दिया जाएगा। जो सबसे ज्यादा आलसी हो वह अपना हाथ उठाए । नौ हाथ तुरंत ऊपर उठ गए। तुमने हाथ क्यों नहीं उठाया ? बॉस ने दसवें आदमी से पूछा मुझसे नहीं उठाया जाता ...........

The LOGIC works in the world

Father: I want you to marry a girl of my choice

Son: "I will choose my own bride!"

Father: "But the girl is Bill Gate's daughter."

Son: "Well, in that case...ok"


Next

Father approaches Bill Gates.

Father: "I have a husband for your daughter."

Bill Gates: "But my daughter is too young to marry!"

Father: "But this young man is a vice-president of the World Bank."

Bill Gates: "Ah, in that case...ok"


Finally Father goes to see the president of the World Bank.

Father: "I have a young man to be recommended as a vice-president."

President: "But I already have more vice- presidents than I need!"

Father: "But this young man is Bill Gate's son-in-law."

President: "Ah, in that case...ok"


Moral : Even If you have nothing, You can get Anything ,
If your attitude is positive.

The secrets of the Mind

Our brain has two parts left and right. While making decision left part depends on some numeric calculations and facts and figures, but right part did not depends on such any process, Its conclusions take place in the form of some pictures or hints which have no relation with mathematical calculations and facts/figures.

Suppose you keep anything somewhere and forget it. You are trying to remember what did you do before and after placing that thing but you are not remembering till now. Suddenly in the evening you remember yourself that where did you placed the thing, while you were not thinking about that.

Actually left parts do the jobs of thinking step by step and when it proved failure to get any conclusion then it seams that the thought is revolving in a circle. In this process the left part got tired, and then suddenly the conclusion comes out in the form of some signs or picture. These are those outputs which are speedy presented by the right part of the mind with out any calculations and information. Only this capability of right part makes some people different from others.

Albert Einstein was one of those persons who were capable in using the right part of the mind. Once he said himself regarding his working patron,”It seams that words or language in which way these are spoken or written have no role in the process of thinking. I think conclusions come out in the form of some special signs and clear pictures which can be presented and co-ordinate afterwards.”

Now can a person be taught how to think from the right part of the mind?
According to tennis player Tim Galwe:- Disturb the process of lift part of the mind so that right part could get the chance of thinking. Suppose when a player is playing tennis the left part always reminds some instructions as- “ Keep the eyes on the ball, always be knelt on knees and hold racket straight backward” which told the player how to play the accurate stroke. Through this process some time the player got success while playing the shot but not always.

Galwe suggest controlling this thinking of left part of the mind that when the player throw the ball upwards then say bounce and when racket smash the ball then say hit. Through this process the left part of mind will be quite itself and the right part will be active which accept the things in its full manner not in peaces. The player will also feel easy to play.

There is one more way which can enhance the creativity of the person. Suppose you are making drawing of a picture, then left part of the mind keep control on your creativity it told you the names of various parts of the picture (because it accept the information in peaces), as this is nose draw it in this way, these are eyes draw these in this way etc. But the pictures drawn by rest of the persons rather than a painter will be only as good as if made by a child.

Now rotate the picture on 180* angle, the left part of mind will be disturbed, it will see only some meaningless lines in place of a recognizable picture because it being depends on calculations and facts could not accept the un- arrange able data. When left part find itself failure to understand this data, it send it to the right part of the mind which is having the flexible thinking process. Now the right part guides the person how to move the pencil according to lines and curves of the picture with out caring where are nose and eyes etc. After completion the task when the paper is rotated on 180* we find that it is the copy of the main picture.

Do you know which part of mind do you use mostly?

Very simple when you are asked any question, and you bend your head to left side for thinking then you are using right part of your mind and if to right side then you are used to work with your left part of mind which depends on facts, calculations and language.

Yaar I think so computer programmers are used to work with their left part of mind and computer operators with right part. What do u think and observe?